assorted emotions

October 31, 2008

How To Deal When You’ve Been Dumped

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Everyone seems to have been through a broken heart or two. With all the practice, you’d think breakups would become easier to deal with. Alas, being dumped is one of the crummiest situations we mere mortals have to surmount. One saving grace is that almost all of us seek out love again. If someone has just broken your heart and if the last thing you want to hear is that “there are other fish in the sea” then read on.

One big step in moving on with your life is to attain closure. You need to ask your partner why they want to end the relationship. In some situations the reasons are obvious yet it still helps to get burning questions off your chest. Don’t show any weakness to your ex, if they can’t appreciate what a wonderful human being you are then all your crying and begging will most likely fall on deaf ears. If you want to rant and rave then do so, in the privacy of your own home. If you are completely livid then write out all your emotions in a letter to your ex, only refrain from actually sending it to them. Re reading your letter every time you need to work through your frustrations gradually helps to ease the pain. Be sure to spend time with friends and family, even if it’s the last thing you feel like doing. Embrace your inner strength and independence and reconnect with yourself.

October 27, 2008

WANDERING THOUGHTS

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As I sit here, stitching designs
in a piece of cloth,
I wonder about every stitch becoming
a memory of long ago.
Or do the stitches represent something
that went wrong that I have done?
Or do the stitches mean
perfection that will be the
things that I do right?
Looking down at that cloth
that is becoming what I have pictured
in my mind just got me thinking.

Memories of the past come back
to me this night.
They get me wondering once more
about what the stitches mean.
I think they all mean that whatever is going
to happen in the future can be changed
before you have to knot the end of the thread.
 

October 26, 2008

SUNFLOWER

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A sunflower with yellow petals to spread.
It reminds me of the opposite of dead.
It is black in the middle, dark and lonely.
The flower is so tall and colorful through it all.
You can’t forget this kind of flower,
For all it is, is a kind of power.

Biblical words..

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Goodmorning to all
this is our biblical words for this morning..
from the book of Proverbs 8:7
says………
 
" He who corrects an arrogant man ears insult; and
he who reproves a wicked man incurs opprobrium"
 
May we Keep this Into our MInd alWays…
Godbless..
 
 

October 25, 2008

Biblical words….

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Goodmorning to all
this is our biblical words for this morning..
from the book of Proverbs 1: 8
says………
 
" Hear, my son, your father`s instruction,
and reject nt your mother`s teaching"
 
friends according to the 10 commandments that we
should honor our mother and father…and in this verse
remind us that we must obey and respect our parest…
 
May this words be put into your mind Always…..
Godbless you……
 
 

October 24, 2008

A WORLD BEHIND MY TROUBLES

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I long for a world
Far away
Far behind my troubles
And sad days
A world of happiness
A world of peace
A world of happy days
to repair my life piece by piece
Of course I’ll never find this world
because it’s all in my head

Connecting with the Web of Love

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Breathing the Web. Here is a simple, yet powerful way of connecting with the Web of Love through breath. Close your eyes for a minute and imagine a sparkling, energetic web connecting the deepest essence of all people in the world. Consider placing your hands over your heart or the center of your chest as you do this. Take a few deep breaths as you open to this image.

Now, while taking a slow, very deep inhale, say to yourself:
Your sacred love flows in to me.

Then slowly exhale fully while thinking and feeling:
My sacred love flows out to you.

Repeat this a few times while opening your heart fully to all the love present. Make sure to fill your lungs completely on the in breath and to exhale fully on breathing out. Doing this for just a minute or less can powerfully shift you into a more loving space. Try it now, and invite yourself to really let the love flow!

The "you" in these sacred love statements can be all people on the planet, or it can be any individual you choose. For some, it might be easier to start this exercise by imagining the one to whom you feel closest in your life. Breathe the web with that special someone in mind and let the love flow between you. Then envision other people in your life and do the same. When you are ready, envision groups with which you are involved and eventually all people who share our world. This simple breathing exercise can be deeply meaningful in either a personal or a global context.

There may be times when you want to breathe the web, but can’t remember the words used above. “Love to me, love to you,” is all you need to feel the web. You can create your own sayings, too, with words that are more meaningful to you. The most important element is your intention to connect with all people on this beautiful planet through the Web of Love.

October 16, 2008

We all have STRENGTHS and weaknesses.

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What’s right for one person may not be right for another.
           There are things that are important to me, that you don’t care about at all!

And sometimes your behavior doesn’t make any sense to me.

But I want for us to understand each other, and communicate well,                
because we live together in the same world.          


I know I can’t expect you to want the same things that I want.
We are not the same person, so we will not always see things the same way.

     I have my own Thoughts and my own Ideas,                                                     
    that may or may not fit into your vision of who I should be.

By learning more about my own Personality, and about other Personality Types,
             I can come to a better understanding of my strengths and weaknesses.    

I can improve my interpersonal relationships, realign my expectations towards others,   
and gain a better self-knowledge that will help me define and achieve goals.

October 4, 2008

Gods Word….

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Todays Word……
 
Proverds 6:3
 
" The lips of an adulterness drip with honey,
and her mouth is smoother than oil.."
 
Keep this words Everyone….

October 2, 2008

How to Deal With Hurt Feelings

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Step1
Stay calm when your feelings are hurt and allow time for yourself to completely cool off.
 
Step2
Think before you speak, or you may lash out with words that you can’t retract and regret the consequences.
 
Step3
Prevent misjudging by not presuming the other person’s intention. You may pass judgment incorrectly and make the situation worse. Ask yourself if the person’s intent was deliberate or if it’s unintentional.
 
Step4
Walk away from situations that may cause you to retaliate or seek revenge.
 
Step5
Try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes and understand why he acted the way he did. It’s a lot easier to forgive when you can understand the reason for someone’s behavior.
 
Step6
Approach the person that offended you and express to her that she hurt your feelings by her behavior, actions or words. It’s healthier to resolve the concern than to let it sit and debilitate you. However, be careful how you phrase what you say so that you do not appear to be antagonistic.
 
Step7
Choose to be not offended and avoid self-pity; you are only hurting yourself.
 
Step8
Forgive, overcome oversensitivity and seek to be at peace with yourself.
 
Step9
Pray for the ability to let go of hurt feelings.





















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